Thursday, May 22, 1997 Remarks by William R. Brody, President The Johns Hopkins University Good morning, graduates! Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life. Or at least, the first day of your real life. Good morning also to the friends, and relatives, children, spouses and significant others, grandparents and associates of our graduates. Thank you for joining us today. You have every reason to be very proud of your loved one's achievements. We share your pride, and your optimism for their future. And good morning, especially, to the parents of our graduates. You who have been to the pinnacles of exaltation and through the darkest vales of tears with these students have special cause to celebrate. These fine men and women who are leaving us today have demonstrated great fortitude and determination to arrive here this morning. You have schooled them well: teaching them the value of hard work and perseverance, encouraging them to honor the accomplishments of the mind, instructing them in compassion and commitment and conscience. You gave them your best, and hoped and prayed for the best in return. You taught them to think for themselves, and, in doing so, reminded them the best possible way to do that was to first think of others. You even, somewhere in the past, gave them the means of doing so. You said they must always remember three magic words: "please" and "thank you." And yet, still you worried, and fretted that perhaps you had not done enough. Today, you may set your worries aside at last. Today, you know the answer: your loved ones did not disappoint. They have achieved great things. And, in token of their gratitude, today they have three magic words of their own they can now offer to you: "No more tuition." ... Well, at least, for some of you. I wish to welcome also our faculty and staff who have come here today to acknowledge and celebrate the achievements of our graduates; and to the members of our Board of Trustees, who volunteer so much of their time and expertise to guide this great institution, and have still made time to be here on this day. I would also like to welcome Baltimore City mayor Kurt Schmoke, an alumnus of Yale, it's true, but for many years now a true friend and supporter of the Johns Hopkins University. It is my great pleasure and honor and privilege as the president of Johns Hopkins University to welcome you all. I stand before you today in a somewhat unique situation. Today, I am the commencement speaker. A week and a half from now, my wife and I will be sitting in the audience at Dartmouth, watching our daughter, Ingrid, graduate. I am keenly aware that what miseries of speaking too long, or to no general purpose, that I inflict upon you today may be returned, several times over, to me next week. And so I will offer the three magic words that should be the motto of every commencement speaker: "I'll be brief." Knowing that I will soon be sitting where you are, I have been thinking a lot about what words I might offer to my own daughter at this wonderful and exhilarating juncture in her life. Eventually, I came up with three things I thought I should tell her, three ideas that may help smooth the way a bit as she ventures through adulthood. It is axiomatic for parents that giving advice to your children is like shoveling sands into the desert with a spoon; therefore, I have decided to take a different tack. I thought, for the parents in the audience today, I would offer this advice to your children instead. I ask only one small favor in return. If, next week, any of you are planning on being at Dartmouth, and you see my daughter, perhaps you would consider passing some of this on. Just don't tell her where it came from. There was a "Peanuts" cartoon many years ago where the doctor — in this case, Lucy the psychiatrist — was in. A despondent Charlie Brown sat before her, asking why life was so full of adversity. "Why that's simple, Charlie Brown," said Lucy. "Adversity builds character!" "And why do we need character?" asked Charlie Brown. "To prepare for more adversity!" came Lucy's immediate reply. Sometimes I think it's frightening how true this fundamental paradox can be. And so, one of those lessons in life I would offer our graduates today is, on the surface, a deceptively simple corollary to Lucy's Law of Adversity. And that is, it takes real wisdom to avoid making painful mistakes. To which our graduates, will immediately respond, "But how may we gain that wisdom, to avoid those painful mistakes?" I must confess that, most often, wisdom comes by making other mistakes — and sometimes making them repeatedly. There is no shortcut of which I am aware. Because at some point on this journey, each of us has to learn an essential truth: It is rarely the size or the nature of the mistakes we make, but rather the readiness we demonstrate to learn from them, that marks who we are and what we accomplish. Graduates, it is, unfortunately, the reality that we usually learn far more from our failures than from our successes. Mistakes happen. With any luck, we learn from them. The most rewarding response to failure comes from getting back up, dusting yourself off, and getting on with things. Thomas Edison conducted literally hundreds of unsuccessful attempts to make the electric light bulb. Each failing experiment pointed the way towards ultimate success. Our own Baltimorean, Babe Ruth, is known as the best home run hitter ever. For decades, he held the record for the largest number of home runs hit in a single season. You may not know that he also held the record for the largest number of strikeouts in a single season. People will remember your successes long after they have forgotten your failures — yet it is your failures, or mistakes, that pave the path to success. I only hope my daughter figures that out faster than I did. The second idea I'd like to suggest is the need to maintain balance. Our students are very bright, very motivated and very ambitious. They fit in well at a place like Hopkins. How then can we communicate that, while a career is important, it is not the only thing — perhaps it is not even the major thing — that matters in this brief life? There are family and children, friends and the community and a hundred worthy activities that will demand your time. Not all those demands can be met. You will need to make choices. It's important to remember that not everything of worth has a dollar sign affixed to it. In fact, many of the most valuable things — the priceless ones — do not. At the beginning of this year, at our freshman convocation, I had the pleasure of introducing someone to our entering students who had something to say in this regard. Her name is Ruth Davidon, and she is a some-time student in the School of Medicine. I say "some-time student" not because Ruth only attends classes infrequently, or is less than devoted to her studies. Quite the contrary. It's just Ruth has a special extracurricular ability: she's one of the fastest single-scull rowers alive. In fact, she is so fast that she decided to take a little time off from her medical studies to compete in last summer's Olympics. She made the finals — a remarkable feat. We were all disappointed that she didn't win a medal. But she did do something unique. She took the time to step outside her career and gave her all to something she truly loved. The secret I would suggest to you today is to try to remember there is no age limit on this type of activity. Our careers will always make great demands on us; we need occasionally to say no, and go rowing. Even though Ruth Davidon didn't win her Olympic race, she had a fabulous experience and gained tremendously from it. She struck that balance, and in the long run, I'd say not only is she a clear winner, but she will be a far better physician for it. So this is some of what I'd tell my daughter: I'd tell her to be accepting of her mistakes, and to try to keep her life in balance. Finally, I would let her in on one of the great secrets of the waning days of the 20th century. Today, I'm pleased to share it with you. "Career planning" is a misnomer. In fact, it's probably a contradiction in terms. Certainly, it's great to have dreams and goals and ambitions. They're important and, I think, even necessary. And my daughter, just like all the graduates sitting in this audience today, has a good share of all of those things. But even the brightest dreams, the loftiest goals and the sharpest ambitions can't assure the future. Let me quote from Al Ries' and Jack Trout's book, "Horse Sense," a quick read I would heartily recommend to all who are going to find themselves sitting on a beach or stretching out in a hammock in the next couple of weeks, wondering about how to plan for the future: "If your goal was to be chief executive of a computer company," they wrote, "would you have spent the first 16 years of your working life with a cola company? Probably not. Yet that's what former Apple Computer chairman and CEO John Sculley did ... . "If you wanted to own a pizza chain, would you have started out in computers, eventually taking the job of vice president of management information services at Pillsbury? That's what Herman Cain, president of Godfather's Pizza, did." Perhaps a bit closer to home: If you wanted to be the most successful media entrepreneur of our time, would you go to Johns Hopkins, study engineering and then spend the first 15 years of your working career as a bond trader on wall street? There's someone who was rumored to do that also. I won't identify him, but you can read all about his career in the recently published book, "Bloomberg by Bloomberg." Pablo Picasso once said: "If you always know exactly what you want, that will be the most you'll ever find." The point, of course, is not that you can't have goals, or that you shouldn't plan; what they are suggesting is that we all need to be open to opportunities we aren't anticipating, we need to be ready to follow the paths we didn't expect. Bill Gates knew he had a future in software, but he hardly could have guessed how successful he would be. At age 40, he is the wealthiest man in the world. George Bernard Shaw didn't begin writing plays until he was 30; Ray Kroc, the highly successful chairman and CEO of McDonald's, was 51 before he ever saw his first Big Mac; and Grandma Moses didn't take to painting until she was 78 years of age. It's not a question of mapping out your future and then following from point A to point B; the reality of life in the closing days of the 20th Century is that we can expect the unexpected. It will be more of the same — only much, much different. In the coming century, it is the career following a single trajectory that will probably be unusual. Many of you graduating today will have not one career, or two, but several — perhaps even dozens. We're living longer, we're working longer, and new careers are being defined every day. But our graduates know that. My daughter knows it too. Last year, she was working in Singapore, designing web pages. What is a web page designer? I'm not exactly sure. Nobody ever taught me about that in my college days, nor even three years ago. The important point is: don't be concerned if you aren't sure exactly what you are going to do in the future: It's truly impossible to plan for a career that doesn't yet exist. But we can at least be prepared to seize opportunity when it knocks. We can be ready to expect the unexpected, and be willing to view these discontinuities not as challenges, but as opportunities. I'm pleased to say, I think all of the graduates in this audience are prepared, ready, and willing to accept the challenges. Your Johns Hopkins education is an ideal preparation for a world laced with uncertainty and change. This morning's ceremony is rich in the kind of pageantry and ritual and tradition we associate with momentous occasions — and well it should be. The robes and hoods, the processional music, the formal invocations and high seriousness of it all are meant to reinforce the significance of this event. I hope you have enjoyed them. You have certainly earned them. But now comes the hard part. All of what came before was but preparation. The real tasks lie ahead. No doubt, you will need every skill you have so far mastered — and many more you have not yet begun to possess. And while I cannot stand here this morning and predict which of you will blaze like stars, and which will go quietly and competently about your business with little fanfare but no less success, I can say, at least, with considerable confidence, that each of you is capable and motivated and exceptionally well prepared. In fact, I will venture to suggest there is not another group of graduates of any university anywhere that has the vision and imagination and talents of this group seated here today. Though I suspect next week, when I'm at Dartmouth, I'll be hearing someone else say very much the same thing. No doubt, like the parents here today, I'll be nodding my head in complete agreement. And like all parents everywhere, when it comes right down to it, I probably won't know exactly what to say to my new graduate. Other than: I'm proud of you, I wish you well, and I have every reason to believe the best is all before you. Members of the class of 1997: Today is a wonderful day, memorable for us all. Let me again offer my congratulations to those of you who receive degrees today, and my good wishes to your families and friends who have stood beside you and supported you throughout your studies. Your university is proud to call you alumni and alumnae; as members of the Hopkins family, you will always be welcomed here. May all of you fare well on the journey ahead. Thank you. |